The talk I just had with my daughter:
K: Mommy, I think this baby is going to die because you're so sick.
M: No, baby. It's actually a good sign that I'm so sick, it means the baby is growing.
Skipping over the whole morning sickness explanation:
M: I wasn't very sick with baby Aiden. I think that was a sign something was wrong.
K: So he died because you weren't sick?
M: No, it was just a way to tell that something wasn't going well with the baby. But not always. Some people don't get sick.
K: I'll always have a baby brother.
M: Yes, you will.
K: For my whole life?
K: When I die I'm going to see him and give him the biggest hug. But you're going to die first.
M: I better, I'm older. You should live a really long time. When I see Aiden I'll give him a really big hug and tell him you can't wait to see him.
K: -makes a funny strangling noise- then he'll probably say, can you stop that please?
Funny girl. Sometimes I love her so much I want to squeeze her and hold onto to that preciousness forever. God I hope this one makes it. I don't want to break her heart again.